Love at first sight
Almost everyone loves love at first sight .Love at first sight is very romantic but at that point there's a lack of fore sight of what is in depth of that love.Love at first sight without insight makes you lose sight of the future light of that love.Love is not about personalities .A proof of love is not expecting perfections but inspire of imperfections placing value to help in the area of that imperfection .A love that hasn't passed a storm or more and survived is a love with barely any insight .Love is meant to help to give strength,hope ,care ,happiness when there's a lack of it .Your love is to help someone else at his/her point of needs .A love that doesn't have giving and sacrifice is very selfish and not termed "true love " but a "pseudo love". What does your love entail ? Should anyone be lucky you loved him or the contrary?
The perfect example was Jesus making a sacrifice for us ive not seen such love He is love in himself .Any love you show ..without Jesus it is incomplete ..Let Jesus be in the centre of your love and all will be fine that doesn't stop storms from coming but he'll show you how to calm it down .
Let your love not be based on first sight alone but based on insight having it in mind that you will love both in good and bad times when that insight is established .then love is thriving